I am in love with two brothers!

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This is a weird situation to be in because it doesn't have a good outcome no matter how I look at it. I am a 26-year-old woman in love with two brothers and can't decide which of them is better for me. I know they like me too, and they have been very honest about how they would like to be with me. I can't make up my mind because I know that my choice will have an impact on the one I decline. It's driving me crazy. There is a year's difference between them, and they both have individual qualities that appeal to me for different reasons which is why I can't make up my mind. I know they will accept my decision no matter what, but I can only imagine how this will affect their personal lives because they live together. I will become the villain for one of them no matter what I do. This has been going on for almost a year and I keep dating them both without committing to anything. It feels like being in a love triangle. What should I do? Should I just avoid any relationship with them? I may regret that too. Please help.
It's possible that you are overthinking this because you are presuming that things will be horrible for them at home without knowing what their personal lives are like. They have been honest with you and deserve to have some kind of response because the longer you draw this out, the worse you are making things for everyone involved. If you believe you can't choose between the two, consider not getting into a relationship with either of them because people have feelings and regretting your decision later will only make things worse. Alternatively, you can commit to one of them and work on making sure the relationship is solid. Everything else will fall into place with time. Either way, this is a problem that you alone can resolve because they are both waiting on you.

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